Bonsai became my new calming ritual, so I asked an expert how to grow one at home
Tina KovačićekNovember 29, 2025
November 29, 2025
Thinking a few months ago about what I could take up without knowing anything about it, something that would automatically push me toward new skills and learning, I stumbled upon bonsai by accident. The art of growing miniature trees in containers that mimic the look of old, natural trees in a small format felt spiritual and almost soothing. Somewhere in that research I came across Andrija Zokić, whose expertise and dedication to this botanical form are impressive, so I asked him when he first became interested in bonsai. “I have known about bonsai since childhood, but for a long time I thought it was something you inherit in Japan from your grandfather, an already perfect tree that you simply maintain,” Andrija told me. He began working with it more seriously during his sculpture studies. “The turning point was discovering the work of Austrian bonsai master Walter Pall. His trees were not ornamental Japanese pieces in pots. They were real old mountain trees, imperfect, full of scars and full of life, just like the ones I had spent years observing in nature. That was when I realized that bonsai is a living sculpture and the ideal meeting point of nature and art. We soon invited Walter to a workshop in Croatia, we met, and I have been his student ever since.”A living sculpture. That is where he won me over.
Lately there has been a lot of discussion about bonsai as the perfect calming hobby. It seems the search for hobbies that ground us never ends. So my next step was to ask Andrija how to grow your own bonsai at home. Here are my notes.
Andrija opened with an important point. “Bonsai is the ideal hobby for calming the mind, but it is important to set aside the expectation of quick results. A tree has its own rhythm, which is slower than ours. At the beginning something just clicked in my mind. I realized that time should not be pushed because it flows on its own. My job is to do my part, and the trees will do theirs, which is to grow and develop. Once you accept that, bonsai truly becomes a calming hobby. Here is what it does for you:
In the end, bonsai is one of the best ways to learn to appreciate transience, because it is precisely transience that brings progress to a bonsai over the years.

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“It depends on what we mean by that,” Andrija replied, wanting to explain two different ways of growing bonsai at home.
“If we are talking about a real bonsai made from species such as hornbeam, maple, pine, olive, and similar, then the answer is that it is more demanding than the average houseplant, but not an impossible mission. For this you need:
If by bonsai we mean a small tree from a garden center that we keep indoors, then that is something else. These plants are often styled to look like bonsai, but the species themselves are not ideal for long term cultivation in an enclosed space. They can be a nice introduction to the world of bonsai, but it is important to know that true long term bonsai are always tied to outdoor spaces such as a balcony, terrace, or garden.”

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“The first question you need to ask yourself is whether you have an outdoor space such as a balcony, terrace, garden, or at least a covered porch.
For beginners I recommend not starting from seed, but from an already formed or at least somewhat developed plant from a nursery or bonsai center. Seeds and very young seedlings are great for learning, but they take many years before they start to look like real trees, which can kill early enthusiasm. And paradoxically, it often takes more knowledge to create a good bonsai from seed than from high quality raw material.
It is best to choose a hardy species that is locally adapted, something that already grows well in your climate. Here in Dalmatia, for example:
In the more continental parts of Croatia you can choose species such as:
Look for a tree that immediately draws your attention, with an interesting trunk, an irregularity, a small story hidden inside. It does not need to be perfect. What matters is that you find it appealing and that the little tree has character. Choosing the starting material is something you learn throughout your life, and it largely determines the future appearance of the bonsai.”

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“The most common mistake is giving too much or too little water. The basic rule is:
Light:
Air:
If a problem appears, it is often a good idea to move the tree out of direct sun and into shade until it recovers. Conditions are not the same for all species, and it is not the same whether you keep your tree in a garden in Dalmatia, Lika, or Zagreb, since microclimate plays a big role.”
“This answer is not simple because it depends on the stage the bonsai is in. If it is yamadori, a tree collected from nature, it first needs time to recover from shock before shaping can begin gradually. If the tree is purchased and ready to work on, beginners only need to:
Major cuts and stronger shaping are usually done at the end of winter or early spring, depending on the species and climate, when the plant is waking up and heals best.
Wiring is a more advanced stage, and this is where mistakes happen the most, so I advise beginners to start by learning through moderate pruning and observing how the plant reacts.
Shaping is not one big makeover, but a series of small decisions over the years. The most beautiful bonsai trees are often the result of many small and patient steps rather than one dramatic transformation.
What matters to me is that a bonsai looks as if a human hand has never touched it, that it keeps as much of the natural feel of an old tree as possible.”
Summer::
Winter:
The most important thing is to avoid sudden freezing and thawing and the combination of wind and strong subzero temperatures.

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If after a year or two bonsai still brings you joy, and not just looks nice on a shelf, then you know it is a hobby that can become a real part of your life.